My boyfriend is addicted to porn, so Ive left him | Mariella Frostrup
A young woman who broke up with her boyfriend over his porn addiction feels insecure. Mariella Frostrup tells her to pat herself on the back, as porn is poisoning our culture If you have a dilemma,...
View ArticleI do everything for my partners, then resent them and leave | Mariella Frostrup
A woman, who devotes herself to her boyfriends, ends up feeling anger, even hate, towards them. Mariella Frostrup says she needs to put herself in her partners shoes If you have a dilemma, send a brief...
View ArticleMy husband has left me and our kids to start a relationship with my best friend
A woman whose husband has deserted her is struggling to cope.Mariella Frostrup says only she can dig herself out of her miseryIf you have a dilemma, send a brief email to...
View ArticleIm jealous of my best friends romance | Mariella Frostrup
A lovelorn woman is envious of her blissfully happy best friend. Mariella reminds her that real-life romances are rarely as perfect as they may lookThe dilemma I have recently become incredibly jealous...
View ArticleIf my girlfriend and I take a break, Im worried we might grow apart |...
A 21-year-old is certain hes found the love of his life but fears a tragic ending. Mariella Frostrup says he must stop worshipping her and see her flaws If you have a dilemma, send a brief email to...
View ArticleI dont love my colleague, but shes having my baby | Mariella Frostrup
A man who feels he was tricked into getting a colleague pregnant doesnt know what to do, especially as she wants to get married. Mariella Frostrup says he should focus on the child If you have a...
View ArticleMy daughter sounds uneducated because she says like so much | Mariella Frostrup
A mother is worried that her daughter sounds stupid and uneducated because she uses the word like all the time. Mariella Frostrup says its just the world she lives in If you have a dilemma, send a...
View ArticleMy boyfriend doesnt like my parents. What does this mean for our future? |...
A woman whose boyfriend dislikes her parents is worried about their future. Mariella Frostrup says that even though his own parents divorced, learning to cope with others is part of growing upThe...
View ArticleIm not attracted to my husband any more, maybe because of the menopause |...
A woman no longer interested in sex with her husband wonders how to rekindle the passion. Mariella Frostrup says it is monogamys greatest quandary If you have a dilemma, send a brief email to...
View ArticleHow can I stop my needy boyfriend barging into my room? | Mariella Frostrup
A woman who values her personal space is fed up with her boyfriend walking into and sometimes breaking into her room. Mariella Frostrup says there is only one way to goIf you have a dilemma, send a...
View ArticleMy perimenopausal wife is unhappy, and I dont like her or our life together |...
A man finds his wifes overreaction to the messiness of their teenage children frustrating. Mariella Frostrup says he needs to sort himself out firstIf you have a dilemma, send a brief email to...
View ArticleI do my best to meet people, but Im lonely and dont have any friends |...
A woman has no friends despite the fact that she is confident, active and leading a full and varied lifeIf you have a dilemma, send a brief email to mariella.frostrup@observer.co.ukThe dilemma Im...
View ArticleMy mother, a former alcoholic, wants to move in with me | Mariella Frostrup
A woman whose recently sober mother wants to live with her wonders how to say no. Mariella Frostrup says its essential for both of their lives that she doesIf you have a dilemma, send a brief email to...
View ArticleI love my boyfriend but we’re different religions. Will that matter when we wed?
A Muslim woman set to marry a Christian man worries about their different religions. Mariella Frostrup says it’s her family and partner who matter mostIf you have a dilemma, send a brief email to...
View ArticleI’m attracted to men, excited by women and confused about my sexuality |...
A 36-year-old woman who is emotionally attracted to men but physically attracted to women is confused. Mariella Frostrup says it’s time she tried them both outThe dilemma I’m confused about my...
View ArticleMy mother beat me and now I can’t trust anyone | Mariella Frostrup
A 24-year-old man, badly abused in childhood, feels desperately helpless. Mariella says his letter shows his determination and advises professional helpIf you have a dilemma, send a brief email to...
View ArticleIt’s hard to cope with my pregnant wife being so irritable | Mariella Frostrup
A man with a short-tempered wife, about to give birth to their second child around Christmas, bemoans his lot. Mariella Frostrup rediscovers her own inner grumpy feministIf you have a dilemma, send a...
View ArticleI can’t have a normal life because of my skin condition | Mariella Frostrup
A 16-year-old girl feels her skin condition is ruining her life. Mariella Frostrup says she needs to face her fears, open up to others and learn to accept her flaws If you have a dilemma, send a brief...
View ArticleI have a crush on a colleague. Should I give up my job? | Mariella Frostrup
A woman who has just returned to work after having children fancies her colleague. Mariella Frostrup tells her to get on with it or get over it – but hang on to the jobThe dilemma Just over a year ago...
View ArticleI’m 33 and not in a relationship. Is it too late? | Mariella Frostrup
A 33-year-old woman has a wonderful job but worries she has missed her chance to meet someone. Mariella Frostrup says writing down her hopes and dreams will helpIf you have a dilemma, send a brief...
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