Quantcast
Channel: Dear Mariella | The Guardian
Browsing all 496 articles
Browse latest View live

Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

My boyfriend's mother is coming between us | Mariella Frostrup

Going out with a mummy's boy is proving frustrating for a woman who just wants a normal relationship. But it's not really his mother who's to blameThe dilemma I've been with my boyfriend for three...

View Article


Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

I want to leave my wife for my lover and take my young daughter with me |...

A father has found a lover and wants to leave his unfaithful wife. Mariella Frostrup advises him to slow down and put his daughter firstThe dilemma I am married with a young child in my early 40s. My...

View Article


Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

I can't face the thought of celebrating Valentine's Day with my wife

A man who fears his marriage is falling apart is worried about a romantic celebration. Mariella Frostrup tells him to ignore the date and try something newThe dilemma 10 February is my wedding...

View Article

Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

I long to be a good wife but can't find anyone to marry me | Mariella Frostrup

A single woman despairs that she will ever find herself a husband and 'saviour'. It's high time she addresses her lack of self-worth, says Mariella FrostrupThe dilemma I'm 28. I'm a nice person. All I...

View Article

Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

I want to challenge my father-in-law's homophobic views | Mariella Frostrup

A woman, who is finding her homophobic father-in-law's views hard to take, wants to make a stand. But is boycotting church her best bet? Mariella Frostrup considers the optionsThe dilemma My husband...

View Article


Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

My mother-in-law dotes on my baby but ignores me | Mariella Frostrup

A working woman is enraged by her mother-in-law, who is bonding a bit too well with her baby daughter. Count your blessings, says Mariella FrostrupThe dilemma My mother-in-law is driving me mad. We...

View Article

Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

I might break up with my girlfriend because she's against gay marriage |...

An Oxford student thinks his girlfriend's views on gay marriage are down to her working-class roots. Don't be such a snob, says Mariella FrostrupThe dilemma I've just started dating a girl at...

View Article

Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

I can't stand my abusive, alcoholic husband any more

A woman whose husband is an abusive drunk is at the limit of her tolerance. Mariella Frostrup says she must help herself before she can help himThe dilemma My husband drinks way more than is good for...

View Article


Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

My young stepdaughter is getting stoned a lot. Should I interfere?

A woman whose teenage stepdaughter is becoming increasingly wayward is fed up with being forced to play the wicked stepmother. Mariella Frostrup says it's time to take a step backThe dilemma My...

View Article


Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

Why do I stay with my aggressive, manipulative husband?

After almost 30 years of marriage, a disillusioned wife can't understand why she doesn't leave her hard-to-love husband. Mariella Frostrup says it's time to confront her fearThe dilemma I've been with...

View Article

Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

I am obsessed with thoughts about my parents dying one day

A young woman about to leave home is terrified by the idea of her parents dying. Mariella Frostrup knows just what she's talking about – and offers a way forwardThe dilemma My problem is a sudden and...

View Article

Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

I'm 21 and worried that I'll never have a boyfriend

A young woman whose best friend has started dating is worried she will never be with anyone herself. Mariella Frostrup says the first step is to throw off her self-pityThe dilemma I'm 21, I've never...

View Article

Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

My husband is dead, so should I stop his monthly payment to his first wife?

A widow wonders if she should now stop her late husband's financial contribution to his first wife. Mariella Frostrup is deeply impressed by her generosityThe dilemma When I met my husband, it was love...

View Article


Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

Pornography is everywhere, and I think it's changing how we feel about sex

A woman says the widespread use of explicit material is putting her off sex, and she wants protection from pornography. Mariella Frostrup says she is not aloneThe dilemma Why is it only children who we...

View Article

Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

I feel angry, jealous, self-obsessed and lost – and I need to change

A woman in her 20s feels she's squandered her life so far. But, says Mariella Frostrup, she hasn't lost her sense of humour – all she needs now is some perspectiveThe dilemma I have a problem taking...

View Article


Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

I've just discovered my husband's addiction to gay porn and meeting men

A woman has discovered that her husband is addicted to gay porn and that it has led him to experiment with other men. Mariella Frostrup says all is not necessarily lostThe dilemma I am a 38-year-old...

View Article

Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

I don't want children but worry my husband is getting broody

A young woman loves her lifestyle too much to want children, but worries that her husband feels differently. Mariella Frostrup says suffragettes did not fight for such shallow choicesThe dilemma I am...

View Article


Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

I want to leave my abusive husband but I'm too frightened

A woman who lives with an abusive husband is too frightened to leave him. Mariella Frostrup explains what she needs to do to break freeThe dilemma I am 28 years old and have been with my husband for...

View Article

Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

Should I break up with my long-term friend?

A woman wonders whether to break ties with an old friend who has let her down. Mariella says friendships are worth fighting forThe Dilemma I don't know whether or not to "break up" with a long-term...

View Article

Image may be NSFW.
Clik here to view.

Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm addicted to flirting online?

A middle-aged man in a happy relationship can't stop flirting with women online. Should he stop? Mariella Frostrup weighs up the perils of secretive passionsThe dilemma I am a 48-year-old man and have...

View Article
Browsing all 496 articles
Browse latest View live