What better time to address the intelligence defeating, rationality obliterating emotional surge we call love, than St Valentine’s Day?
First dilemma My boyfriend says he is not sure what we are doing or if we’re even heading down the marriage route. We have been together for four years and he has hurt me a few times with arguments, things he says in anger and how he has acted towards me in the past. But I am scared of losing him and I do love him.
Second dilemma I’ve been with my boyfriend for one year. When it’s just the two of us we have a great time. He’s had no long-term relationships, but lots of one-night stands. We’ve had a few arguments because of his lack of commitment to the relationship. Whenever we go out I feel humiliated because he stares at other women until they make eye contact. He doesn’t flirt openly when I’m around, but he does talk about other women. I would dump him, but I love him.
Good love makes you happy and whole, not insecure, lacking in self-worth and feeling that you need to try harder
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